what happened between you and your date dri? mind to share your experience for educational purpose?

I have no idea who the anon is. Honestly, it could have been anybody.

But let’s break the message into it’s components:

“You act like you’re god’s gift to women.” – Okay, personally I think guys who act like they are God’s gift to women are the ones who timpal2 ngga penting to all the women on social media, DM cewek sana-sini, tweet sex stuff, nyepik2 or lagak “player” on Twitter, reply2 to pujian on ask.fm, pursues and persuades women to go out with him, reply to questions that give him the opportunity to show off how many women he dates, and dates women who PAP pics together with him. Of course, this is my own personal definition, and no.. I don’t fit that description.

“Face it, you do manipulate women.” – ma·nip·u·late məˈnipyəˌlāt, verb. To control or influence (a person or situation) cleverly, unfairly, or unscrupulously. This is the BEST part of the accusation sih. If I challenged the anon to explain in what way I *deceived* her, or tell me exactly how I *lied* to her, or *misrepresented* who I am or how I am to her… I guarantee she wouldn’t be able to give a definite and substantial answer (diluar jawaban yang dicari2 untuk membenarkan her rage, mind you.) As in, what exactly did she not know or was not aware of about me, that justifies her pulling Korban?

“It was a mistake to have dated you.” – I appreciate her honesty in this part. Because yes, kemungkinan besar it was “her dating me” instead “me dating her.” Why? Because I don’t (actively) approach or pursue women. I make no promises, and I offer nothing at all. To any woman. So if anything happened between us, it was on her… and her alone. So why was it a “mistake”? Tanpa mau kedengeran sok tahu about it, my guess is that she had a hidden agenda and deceived me about what she truly wanted.. and when her plan didn’t work out, she called it a “mistake” and blamed me for it. Preposterous and facedesk-inducing? Well.. welcome to my life. Now you know.

Whoever that anon was, I wish her the best in the future. And hopefully she dates men who fit the criteria of what she is looking for, instead of someone who isn’t, and see as someone who she can change. Because if her manipulative plans (make no mistake, that IS manipulation) don’t work out, then she’ll be back to square one and pulling “Korban” on social media all over again.