Ooooh I know what you mean. I get hate questions, too. I think they are mostly from people who only have passing acquaintance with me, or just know me from social media. Though yes, I’m sure I’ve gotten a few from women who were involved with me at one time or another, or from guys who.. well, wasn’t pleased about their involvement with me.
But yeah, getting it from people who are *around* you is a different ballgame altogether. It’s always the people who are close to you who can hurt you the most. I’m going to make a guess that you’re a female. 🙂
I wish I had solid advice for you, but all I can say is: delete the bad messages, remember the good messages, and start re-assessing who your friends are.