True, we can’t control what society says. But we can control how we react to it, and how our child will deals with it. Tapi beneran deh, rata2 orang ngga akan peduli kok. Never overestimate how much people think or talk about us.. they really don’t care that much. And the ones who do, will be people whose opinions mean nothing to you anyways.
Sorry ya, ini saya reply setelah lebih dari sebulan. In general, I never reply to any questions that contain compliments of any sort. But since the rest of your question was relevant enough, let me say it one more time: adoption has NOTHING to do with being “baik.” I do things because it personally feels right, and because I find it rewarding. So in the end, it’s a selfish reason like any other.