Unfortunately, yes I have some buddies who have qualities of Lesser Men. You know, the type who have that misplaced sense of Male Privilege (“Ya namanya juga cowok lah, bro.. ya ngga?”). And yes, I look down on men who say stuff like what you just mentioned.
But I must say, “the lesser man” is a whole spectrum sih. I do know that I can’t be friends with those guys who cat-call women, deketin women who are in no position to avoid them, or systematically deceive and manipulate women just to “score”.